Extensions and Reflections

Extensions Lesson 28
1) Work out a "want" list with someone else for an agreement that you're trying to reach with someone. Then, make a list of possible "third alternative" solutions that would be good for both parties.

Their "want" list
To get a say in the project, to give input that will be done.
To understand what is going on with the project.
To get a good grade.

My "want" list
For others to help with the project.
For them to work on some stuff.
For them to explain what they want and work on it instead of just give criticism.
To get other's ideas.

Their "don't want" list
To work on the project too much.
To be excluded from the group.
To not be listened to.

My "don't want" list
To do all the work.
Let others do nothing.

Third alternatives
If you put in criticism and requests, then you have to work to get it changed to your way.

Reflections
Are there any unresolved issues in your home that could use some synergy? Walk through the steps to synergy or see if you can come to a solution that makes everyone happy.

My problem is actually close to Nettie's, except I would never be out that late and my parents will totally spazz if I get home after like 7 pm. I think I should be a little more independent, walk to school in the mornings without them following me half way. Going to a party without them driving, even if they can drive. Dress my way, even if it doesn't suit their taste. Let me do my homework and when sad, don't discourage me even more. Let me bus to more places more often rather than for them to worry about me all the time. Nettie gets to go home alone at midnight, and I can barely walk on Granville at 4pm without them calling to check up. Then again, if you look at other Asian parents, I've got the whole world!

My usual blog: UHH!! Soooo mad at myself!!! We had a science test today, and it just went absolutely horrible. I'm already certain that I got three wrong, and it's like such easy things that I missed on the textbook, I really need to read the textbook more carefully!! I totally failed!!

Quote of the day:
“If you see a friend without a smile; give him one of yours.” Anonymous

AWEEE!!! That's soooo cute!!